How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend To Return Your Calls

Published: 16th January 2009
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How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend To Return Your Calls

One of the hardest obstacles when you're trying to get your ex back is just getting him to return your calls. A lot of your relationship problems can be worked out, if you can just open a clear line of communication between you...but how do you get him on the phone?

First off, stop leaving dozens of messages on his machine...eventually he'll get so tired of it he'll just press "Delete All" without listening to them, and if it gets to that point it becomes a lot harder for you to get his attention. You want to get him to call you based on ONE message you leave, a single call that makes him want to call you back.

For this to work, you need to get his attention and pique his interest. A voicemail message saying how much you love him and need to hear his voice won't do it...if anything, it'll make him less inclined to call you so that he doesn't have to deal with the stress of it all. Instead of "Johnny, I miss you so bad PLEASE call me back," find a way to say something that surprises him and causes him to reach for the phone almost before he knows he's doing it.

"Johnny, I just wanted to thank you...what you did really turned my life around." Isn't THAT more attention-getting? He'll wonder what it was that he did, and to find out he'll need to call you back. He won't be able to help it. A message like that is sure to get his interest and get him on the phone.

But STOP right here! This is one of the most critical parts of the whole process of getting him back. When you DO get him on the phone, what you say could make or break your entire chance at reuniting with him. Trying this conversation without having worked out an overall strategy is one of the worst things you can do.

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