3 Tips for Getting Your Ex Boyfriend's Attention

Published: 16th January 2009
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3 Tips for Getting Your Ex Boyfriend's Attention

After being dumped by the one you love, you may not know a whole lot for certain except that you want him back and that you're willing to do whatever it takes to do that. Well the good news is that "whatever it takes" doesn't have to be too hard, and if you know what you're doing you can get him back doing things that you'd normally just do to feel good about yourself and get over the breakup pain!

1) One of the first and foremost things you can do to both feel better about yourself and raise your chances at getting your ex boyfriend to come running back to you is to not allow yourself the luxury of falling apart over this. The first part of this tip concerns your appearance...don't just maintain it, pump it up! New clothes, new hair, new smile, new waist...whatever you think you could improve about yourself, do it! Turn yourself into an absolute knockout!

This helps you a LOT in that it not only makes you feel great when you look in the mirror, but it'll also start getting you noticed by other guys and even your ex if he sees you. Guys giving you the eye or approaching you not only gives you a self-confidence boost and opens up different possible options from your ex (if you find yourself missing him less and less), but if you are still actively interested in your ex being in the male public eye is a great way for spurring on a little bit of that "hey, she's mine" jealousy!

2) Part two of not letting yourself fall apart is to avoid sitting around your apartment feeling sorry for yourself, and keep yourself pulled together socially as well as physically. Go out with friends to the local hotspots where people your age go to have a good time, and shove aside the "omg I miss him so much" feelings in favor of "I'm here...forget him, I'm going to have some fun!" -type feelings.

When you're looking great and staying social, appearing to have a wonderful time...something clicks in your ex's mind if he sees you this way. He starts to see you in a different light...especially if you had the standard common "drag-out" period after the breakup. Seeing you pull yourself together, stand up and move on (even if it only LOOKS that way, regardless of how you feel inside), he'll start to think he misjudged you when he dumped you. It's not always enough to make him come crawling back, but it usually gets you into his head.

3) The focus of this article is on how to get your ex's attention, but just as important is keeping from getting negative attention from him. To this end it's recommended to EVERYBODY who gets broken up with to just go along with it and cut off contact for a period of about a month. This gives the both of you time and space to get your heads straight and sort out how you really feel about one another...with the absence making the heart grow fonder.

This can be hard to do, especially at 3 AM when the heartbreak and loneliness really hits, but if you can keep active in life you'll find it becomes less difficult. Once you two have had an opportunity both to miss each other and also to sample life away from one another, you'll have a better understanding of what you mean to each other. Skipping this trial period and just jumping right at your ex in a desperate attempt to get him back will just drive him away with the stress you're piling on top of the ordinary breakup pain.

It's nowhere near impossible to get your ex boyfriend back, and there's no reason you can't do it if you go about it the right way. You have it in you, you just have to bring it to the surface and make it work! Hopefully this article has helped you, but if you'd like more information you can check out the site below...there are a lot more free tips and great info that can really help you get your ex boyfriend back.

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